She treats me like I am invisible, now what?
From the Mail bag!
Yo Twenty Twenty,
There is this girl I work with who I really have the hots for. She treats me like I am invisible, like every other girl I go after? Now what? I feel funny doing what the PUA crowd says to do, I just don’t feel right being manipulative with a girl. Help!
Bobby
(Name changed to protect the innocent. )
Yo Bobby,
Three quick thoughts which will transform your entire life.
First, forget the girls YOU want, just for now. Instead, take the time to notice the girls who are interested in you.
Most men who are treated like they are invisible walk into a room and don’t bother noticing who is interested in them. Men who do this immediately turn women off, and effectively are invisible from that point forward.
Stop projecting your “I want you beam” and turn your attention to noticing who is interested in you. Once you do that, pick from the women who are already interested in you. It’s like playing with loaded dice.
Next, let’s test the waters. Find out which girl is most responsive to you. Imagine being one of my “Grad” students. You walk into a room and see three women at a table. Take a moment and “ask inside” which woman is most interested and compatible with you.
My Grad Students always get a sign, because they are open to noticing it. Maybe she shifts her body, fluffs her hair, sometimes she even turns to look at him. If you want to have real fun, do this when they aren’t looking at you.
So take the time to read the signs!
Finally, take action. Be the kind of man who is interesting, who is approachable, and who is what women want.
Most men wait too long, and think to much. Now here is a huge key. I’m not just talking about walking up to and talking with the girl, I’m talking about your entire life.
Most men think too much and take too little action EVERYWHERE in their lives. The way they see themselves and the way they see the world has them fading into the background, thinking too much and being frustrated.
Come take a Seduction Alternative Course and experience how to approach life actively, discover how to dance more, and experience less inner and outer war.
And Remember too, YOU do have a choice. If you do what the PUA’s do, you’ll live a life of having to do way too much. Pretending to be what you aren’t.
On the other hand, you can have a life of Being Remarkable. You can experience what it takes to become a man who not only attracts women naturally, you can become the kind of man who looks forward to every day, enjoying the adventure, experiencing the wonder, and being a leader of both men and women.
More to come,
Mr. Twenty Twenty
The Professional Visionary Formerly known as John Wingert
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